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I Will Wait for You

Sometimes I am wonder and ask God, "Why have I had so many 'almosts' in my life?". 

Almost friends.

Almost lovers.

Almost forever.

But for some reason God has only ever kept things as an "almost". Most times, I kick myself for letting myself - giving myself too freely to the boys and men who come in and out of my life. I get upset that I didn't guard my heart enough. Then I start to wonder whether I guard my heart too much. 

A few years ago, a woman shared this with the women of the Christian Fellowship group I attend here at school. I remembered this two days ago and decided to look up the words. They hit me so hard that I wrote them in my journal, and decided to share them here.

“I Will Wait.. For You” 

by Janette Ikz

So it seemed, that it was cool, for everyone to be in a relationship but me..

So I took matters into my own hands… and ended up with him

Him who displayed the characteristics of a CHEATER, a LIAR, an ABUSER, & a THEIF So.. why was I surprised when he broke into my heart?

I called 911, but I was cardiac arrested for aiding and abetting,

Cause it was ME who let him in…

Claiming we were “just friends”..

It was already decided for me by the first date, that even if he wasn’t!

I was gonna make him ‘The One’..

You know… I was tired of being alone,

And I simply made up in my mind, that it was about that time so I decided to drag him along for the ride,

Cause I was always the bridesmaid & never the bride..

A virgin in the physical, but mentally just a grown woman on the corner in heat!

Who was tired of the wait!

So I was gonna make him ‘The One’.

He had a… form of Godliness… but not much..

But hey, hey I can change him! So (honey) I’ll TAKE him, I mean he’s close… enough

Ready to sell my aorta for a quarter, not knowing the value of its use to me

Arties so clogged with MY will, it blocked HIS Will from flowing through me

So, I thank Christ that His blood pressure gave this heart an attack,

That flatlined my obscured vision, put me flat on my back

Through my ignorance He sawed,

Through my sternum He sawed & cracked open my chest

TO transplant Psalm 51:10

A new heart & a renewed right spirit within!

So now I fully understand,

Better yet I thoroughly comprehend,

How much I NEED to wait… for You.

See, the bad thing is that I knew he wasn’t you from the beginning..

Cause in the beginning was the Word

And he didn’t even sound or shine like Your Son

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks,

And all he could whisper was sweet, empty nothings –

Which meant NOTHING.

He couldn’t even pray when I NEEDED him to

Asking him to fast would be absurd!

So forget about being cleansed & washed with water through the Word…

But I know You..

You were already praying for me

Even never having met me

Let me assure you, I will wait for you.

I will no longer date, socialize or communicate with carbon copies of you

To appease my boredom or to quench my thirstiness I have for attention

And short-lived compliments from ‘sorta kindas’.

You know…. He ‘sort kinda’ right, but ‘sorta kinda’ wrong?

His first name LUKE,

His last name WARM.

I, I won’t settle for false companionship

I won’t lay in the embrace of his arms,

Attempting to find some closeness,

But never feeling so far apart cause, I just wanna be held

Cause ♫”all I gotta do is Say” No!

NO more ‘almost sessions’ of ‘almost coming close’

Passing winks & buying drinks,

I’ma, I’ma, I’ma flirt!

Who flirts with the ideology of,

‘Can you just tell me how much I can get away with & still be saved?’

NO more.

I’ll stay in my bed… alone, and write poems, about how I will wait for you,

He won’t even come close,

Our fingers won’t even interlock

We won’t even exchange breath

Cause I have thoughts that I’ve ‘saved as’ in a file that God has only equipped you to open.

I will no longer get weighted down,

From so-called friends & family talks,

About the concern for my biological clock

When I serve the Author of Time.

Who is NOT subject to time,

But I’M subject to Him,

He has the ability to STOP, FAST FORWARD, PAUSE, or REWIND at any given time…

So if we could role play,

You would be Abraham & I would be Sara Or you can be Isaac & I can be Rebecca – a servant’s answered prayer

I am bone of your bone, flesh of your flesh,

Made up of your rib Adam!

And once we meet, like electrons

I will be bound to your nucleus, completely indivisible atom.

We even speak the same math: 1 + 1 + 1 = 3, which really equals 1 if you add Him.

We were all created in His image,

But you have the ability to reflect, project & even detect the Son.

If I were to explain what you looked like,

You would have to look like a star,

A son of the Son..

I would gain energy simply from the light on me.

I would need you , in order to complete my photosynthesis

I await your revelation, but once again from the genesis, I will wait for you 

And I will know you… because when you speak I will be reminded of Solomon’s wisdom,

Your ability to lead will remind me of Moses,

Your faith will remind me of Abraham,

Your confidence in God’s Word will remind me of Daniel,

Your inspiration will remind me of Paul,

Your heart for God will remind me of David,

Your attention to detail will remind me of Noah,

Your integrity will remind me of Joseph,

And your ability to abandon your own will, will remind me of the disciples,

But Your ability to love selflessly & unconditionally will remind me of Christ.

But I won’t need to identify you by any special Matthews or any special Marks,

Cause His word will be tatted all over your heart.

And you will know me, and you will find me,

Where… the boldness of Esther meets the warm closeness of Ruth.

Where the hospitality of Lydia is aligned with the submission of Mary,

Which is engulfed in the tears of a praying Hanna.

I will be the one, drenched in Proverbs 31… waiting for you.

But to my Father, my Father who has known me before I was birthed into this earth

Only if you should see fit…

I desire Your will above mine,

So even if you call me to a life of singleness,

My heart is content with YOU – the One who was sent.

YOU are the greatest love story ever told,

The greatest story ever known

You are forever my judge & I’m forever Your witness

And I pray that I’m always found on a mission about my Father’s business

Oh, I will always be Yours!

And I will always wait for You Lord, more than the watchmen wait for the morning…

More than the watchmen wait for the morning… I WILL WAIT.

When Insecurity Rears Its Ugly Head | Alyssa Joy

"Insecurity. Just the word sends shivers up my spine. Ugh. I hate it. The little bugger doesn’t come up often, but when he does, I want to run away and hide. Lies flood my mind:

Who are you kidding? You can’t do this. You’re nobody. You’re not like them. Nobody sees you. Nobody cares. You’re not good enough. FAIL. See, you’re not as great as you thought. You should just give up. This isn’t going to work.

Deep breathe.

LORD, FLOOD MY HEART WITH YOUR TRUTH! It’s true, I can’t do this—on my own. I don’t really know what I’m doing. But I want to trust you. You have called me to this. You have a purpose for me that you are not going to abandon. This is your adventure for me. And it’s thrilling, exciting—and hard. I am brought to my knees today. I’m just little ol’ me. But I’m YOUR little ol’ me. I belong to you. I have the Holy Spirit dwelling in me. You will lead me through. You will help me. You are my refuge. You are my strength. I need you Lord.

I think the problem with insecurity is that it causes our eyes to be on us.

What do they think of me? I can’t do this. I’m a failure.

But when our focus is on Jesus, insecurity flees.

No longer do we care about what they think of us, but rather we’re fixed on what God thinks of us. The impossible becomes possible because God is with us, he is for us, He fights for us and works in and through us. And the reality is, yes we will fail. But that doesn’t mean we give up. It means we keep going. Every world changer, inventor, creator, artist has failed at some point in their life. But the key is that they kept going. They used their failure as a learning opportunity and were better because of it.

No, insecurity I will not run away and hide. I will look to Jesus and be covered by the shadow of His wings. You can run away. Run far away. I am HIS. And He’s got this. I will keep running, keep obeying, keep trusting. My God reigns and He’s got this."

Taken from Alyssa Joy's blog found at http://blog.alyssajoy.me  

iLEAD Jamaica 2013: A Historical Perspective

Here's a post I made for my trip blog. Check out what I've been up to over my reading week!

iLEAD Jamaica 2013: A Historical Perspective: Today was a day full of learning about the historical roots here at Green Castle. I'm Kristen, in the red, and I'm a fourth year Accountin...

one is heart, the other duty

This is a call to all the dead and disappointed 
The ones who feel like they are done 
This is a word to all the ones who feel forgotten 
But you are not 
Oh you are not

We’re alive, alive, alive we’re singing 
We’re alive, alive, alive and we’re shaken 
We’re alive, alive, alive, alive in You

We are soaked in all the grace that we’ve been given 
Unchained from all that we have done 
Your mercy’s rising like the sun on the horizon 
We’re coming home 

- All Sons and Daughters

I’ve finally realized how busyness can strip away every sense of closeness with God. This concept has always baffled me, as I always have considered myself a busy person, and I always had time to devote to prayer and devotions. However, I have realized all too harshly that busyness is a huge detriment to your faith.

Last semester, I said “yes” to too many things. Two volunteer leadership position and a course overload. Due to this, I was stretched and not doing my best in anything, and just kind of coasting through. I had “no time” for God, and when He wanted to speak to me I just brushed it off.

I knew something was wrong when I was leading worship at a retreat. Usually, retreats are laid-back and I seem to have time to just sit and bask in the awesomeness that is our Saviour, however this time I never felt at peace. I didn’t have any time to myself to pray and seek Him, and as I was waiting for the rest of the team to come to practice, God slapped me on the face. His presence and spirit were so suddenly thick that I could not even comprehend what was wrong. A guy who happened to witness this asked is something was wrong and all I could force out of my mouth was, “I’m fine” as I sat on the mantle of the fireplace crumpled into a helpless ball. God hit me like a freight train. I began to pour out praise in tongues, as I knew not what to say or what to pray for as I was immobilized by the spirit. I felt a heavy weight on my heart, and I didn’t know what God was asking me. 

We continued practice and after, I went into the back room alone to pray and listen. Still, nothing was revealed to me. 

After the service I sat and, for the first time ever, wrote a letter to my future spouse. I felt this was what God wanted me to do, and as I was pouring out my heart to this nameless person I felt a small amount of the weight being lifted off my heart. This was kind of a strange request as God had been speaking to me for the past while  about singleness and making me realize that I need to be okay with never getting married, as I should be living a life honouring Him and His will and not my own. 

After this retreat, I began again to push God away more and more. Less and less I felt His spirit and his voice in my life. 

Sunday, I watched Les Miserable for a second time. I left the theatre crying and unable to stop. I had no idea what was going on. I hadn’t experienced that kind of despair in a long time, and I was confused. I was lonely, depressed and scared of my unknown future. In four months I will be homeless, a recent graduate and with no where to go. Nothing is expected of me other than finding a job. This terrifies me. 

I feel dead and dissapointed because my plans didn’t happen. I’m not married. Not even close, and now I have to lead myself and figure out on my own what God has for me. 

I feel like I am done, because God has given me so many “almosts” in the relationship department. Many have been heartbreaking. Others were embarrassing. 

I feel like God has forgotten me. Everyone else around me has plans. They have buddies, friends or signifiacant others, that they are teaming up with and figuring out life together. I am alone. 

BUT GOD HAS GIVEN ME HOPE. 

After this breakdown, God spoke through some of my friends and reminded me of His truths and promises. I spent many hours in our prayer pit in our house with candles ablaze, lights out and the All Sons and Daughters album blaring.

I have realized that:

I am a sinner

If it’s not one thing it’s another

Caught up in words

Tangled in LIES.

But YOU ARE A SAVIOUR

And you take brokenness aside

And make it beautiful. 

-All Sons and Daughters

I am never alone. I always have God leading me, as it should be. I shouldn’t be looking at what society asks of me or expects out of me. These are LIES that I believe. Pressure from family to settle down and find a spouse are just WORDS. And by believe these things I am more and more of a SINNER. I will always be a sinner. If it’s not one thing I struggle with, there will be another. But I have a hope. My heart is held by the King, my Heavenly Father who holds me, loves me and LEADS me through everything. His glory is so beautiful and His mercy and grace abound in me refreshed and renewed day by day. My life is His and all of my hope is only in Him. 

And I shall cling to THESE TRUTHS through my loneliness, depression and shame. 

I have FAITH. I have HOPE. I have LOVE. 

When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears    and delivers them out of all their troubles.The Lord is near to the brokenhearted    and saves the crushed in spirit.Many are the afflictions of the righteous,    but the Lord delivers him out of them all.

-Psalms 34:17-19 

 

jamaican me crazy

God’s plans baffle me some days. A few years ago as I was trying to figure out why God put me in a business degree I discovered the concept of Micro-business. I don’t know much about it still, but in a nutshell, it’s when people go to villages and teach women and village people how to create and sustain their family through trade and small business. Organizations such as Ten Thousand Villages support these people through selling handcrafts and fair-trade product to us and giving the profits to the craftswomen and men. 

This, I believe, is how poverty can be solved. And this is what I get to research for the next 8 weeks for credit.

In 28 days, 19 hours and 58 minutes I shall embark on an adventure to Jamaica, where I will advise and consult with a small eco-resort as to how to begin their own microfarm. 

Here is a link to the resort’s facebook page and website:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Green-Castle-Estate/326366614075995?fref=ts

http://www.gcjamaica.com

To say I’m excited is an understatement. 

Today, I begin research. As a requirement for my class, I must become an expert in microfarming. So here I go, headfirst, into the beginning of what I believe a much larger plan that God has for me. 

An unplowed field produces food for the poor,
    but injustice sweeps it away. - Proverbs 13:23

Why I Don't Wait Anymore

Why I Don't Wait Anymore